What They Really Think About Dommes
It’s interesting, as a mostly-dominant switch, to see how certain dominant and submissive men view female dominance. Here’s my tongue-in-cheek take on what they’re really thinking:
Dominant men: Secretly believe all dominant women long to submit to a “real” (dominant) man.
Submissive men: Secretly believe all dominant women long to submit to/get fucked by a “real” (dominant) man.
Dominant women: Secretly believe submissive men and women just want to hog all the good hard fucking for themselves.
Dominant men: May secretly believe all dominant women are “really” submissive (or at least switches).
Submissive men: May secretly believe all dominant women are submissive or vanilla in their personal lives, or conversely keep a stable of random male slaves. May also believe all professional dommes are in it strictly for money.
Dominant women: May - just like their submissives - be in charge all day long and want the occasional break.*
Sometimes that break is switching. Sometimes that break is playing a little game called “Zen and the art of punishing-by-not-punishing.” (Masochists: You’re squirming in dread right now. Admit it.)
May decide to go pro after figuring out that not only will boys let you tie them up or kick them in the nuts (hot!) but they will PAY YOU TO DO IT. (Hotter.)
Dominant men: Think submissive men are weak and pathetic.
Submissive men: Think most dominant women and men think submissive men are weak and pathetic. Might sometimes get off on this.
Sadistic dominant women: Think dominant men who can’t take a beating are weak and pathetic. (Or maybe that’s just me.)
(Dominant/switchy men who can take a beating are awesome. Witness: Daniel Craig as James Bond nude, tied up, and hit in the balls with rope. Hottest. Bond scene. Ever.)
Submissive women? They just want a chance to be topped by a sexy domme. Even the straight ones. *wink*
* Dominant men do this, too, but they’ll rarely admit it in public. Also it makes their submissives pout and dominant men just don’t have the pout tolerance that dommes have…